A Father's Love

I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.
- Sigmund Freud

Any man can be a Father but it takes someone special to be a dad.
- Anne Geddes

Unfortunately, it has become "the norm" for young men to have more child support bills than tuition debt. The age-old tradition of growing up, settling down with a wife and then having children is not as popular as it once was. Many young people are becoming parents long before they are ready--financially, mentally, emotionally and otherwise.

Once you get past the pregnancy part, there are many young mothers who are left behind without the father in the picture. Too many little girls and boys grow up confused, unidentified, misidentified and angry. The saddest part is that many of them don't understand why, and probably never will.

Not every young woman is left with a child and "baby daddy" issues, though. There are some young people who have taken responsibility for the life they brought into this world and are doing the best they can to be great parents for their children.

Darren West Jr is a father and a dad. He is not only setting an example for his beautiful daughter by working hard as a student at Millikin University and an employed lab technician, but he spends the invaluable quality time with his baby girl.

Sure, not every young parent is able to have the help and support of family when in school and caring for his/her child, but where there is a will, there is a way. I have personally seen many young parents make it through with and without help from others.

Darren is not the statistic. He beats the odds of today's average young black male father. He is present by choice, and his daughter will know who she is and who she has the potential to become.

 It is with much faith, prayer, sacrifice, dedication and perseverance that his family--daughter and fiance--will be strong, healthy and prosperous.